“Becoming Disabled | Roughly one in five Americans lives with a disability.” – The New York Times

disabledDadu Shin

by | The New York Times Opinion Column

“Not long ago, a good friend of mine said something revealing to me: ‘I don’t think of you as disabled,’ she confessed.

“I knew exactly what she meant; I didn’t think of myself as disabled until a few decades ago, either, even though my two arms have been pretty significantly asymmetrical and different from most everybody else’s my whole life.

“My friend’s comment was meant as a compliment, but followed a familiar logic — one that African-Americans have noted when their well-meaning white friends have tried to erase the complications of racial identity by saying, ‘I don’t think of you as black,’ or when a man compliments a woman by saying that he thinks of her as ‘just one of the guys.’

“This impulse to rescue people with disabilities from a discredited identity, … “

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