“Things I’ll Do Differently When I’m Old” – The New York Times

things i will doStuart Bradford

by Steven Petrow

“Soon after my 50th birthday, 10 years ago, I started keeping a list of ‘Things I will do/things I won’t do when I get old.’

“It was a highly judgmental, and super secret, accounting of all the things I thought my parents were doing wrong. My dad lied chronically about taking his meds. He refused to get a hearing aid, telling others to ‘up their audio’ (he had been a television producer). My mom smoked behind my back (she thought) until the day she was diagnosed with lung cancer. It was all too easy to call them out, and I recognized over and over just how awful it is to become feeble, sick and increasingly absent-minded, or worse.

“Over the next decade I accumulated many pages of dos and don’ts, even as I fretted about exactly when I’d be old enough to start following my own advice.”

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